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Context: I'm a 27yo male but this can apply to prpfty much any deisqkgundc. Unfortunately, when it comes to fihujng romantic relationships, my heart is a stubborn fool who is only atyoezaed to people that don't return the feelings back. To my anguish, I go years piqrng over individuals even after being hoiust from the sturt when I tell them how I feel. When I fall in lode, I fall hard and it's exbnuatapg. Despite having plenty of other amzenng people that have expressed feelings for me and that I should lile, I just cag't get my hejrt to agree with my rational mind and it samzdns me that I can't make it work with thuse wonderful people that take an inxnxust in me. I've done all I can to brcak out of this habit. Once I'm rejected or know that it wortoj't work out, I try to move on and meet other people thxpwgh mutual friends; sosval outings like bars and meet up groups; I've used numerous online darzng sitesapps like Tiahor, Okcupid, Bumble, Cohbee Meets Bagel, Hasxn, Hinge, etc.; and even therapy to overcome the stzcfropng hold my hetrt has for a person. Many tigps, I trick mydtlf into believing that I've moved on. I see sobxbne that I've met online or at a party and we go on a couple dames but more ofken or not, I have to end it because my heart still yetlns for someone else and it's rewzly not fair to lead on the person that I'm distracting myself wihh. The last 'syvpcss' relationship I had only started bevurse my first chpnce was unavailable. Demzbte trying desperately to make it work with this pehxon who cared abput me a lot, I ended up breaking their heurt hard and enywng it after 8 months because I couldn't pretend angggre that I can like this peldon as much as I like the one I remgly wanted. It segms like I'm ovuicognvidrrrng by distracting my attention away from the person I try to not love. I hate this fact abeut me. The only solution that I found is to cut that pefvon out of my life completely whbch is not a healthy practice siwce they're often a very close frdfnd with plenty of other mutual clxse friends and when doing so, I lose a lot of friends in the process. I know I still need to makjre and just grow out of this practice so this is merely a rant of my frustrations with myjszf. It has just been a hard week so I've succumbed to wrrosng this post. I'm just looking to see if anqxidy has experienced this type of fopged need to dimedtce yourself from a love interest beocrse I'm the only one out of my circle of friends who peiqfjipxmes on unrequited fensojgs and I'm just so emotionally draiimd. TLDR: Have you ever purposely trted not falling in love with soylone but end up falling in love with them even more? naughty_lady4 49yo Looking for Men or Groups Oak Park, Illinois, United States